Tuesday, September 21, 2010


It's been a long time since I signed up for ICLW, but I think it's time to stick my head out again and meet some new bloggers. I realized the other day, though, that with my blog in it's current transitional state, it's pretty difficult for those who come over from ICLW to get an idea of our story.

So, here's a summary, for those interested:

My name is Kate, and my husband is known here as H. We met in the summer of 2003 in my hometown back in Texas. We moved to NC for his job and got married shortly after in 2005.

I was diagnosed with PCOS in January 2006, and began treatment with met.formin at that point, though we weren't officially TTC at that point (though we weren't preventing, either). I lost 60-ish pounds that year, thanks in large part to the metf.ormin and diet/exercise.

We began purposefully trying in early 2007, buoyed by the declarations of my doctor that after a year of treatment with met.formin and great weight loss, there should no longer be any hurdles. I began blogging in September of that year when it became clear that there were definitely hurdles.

We took time off during fall 2008 and spring 2009 for me to finish my degree, and returned to TTC with gusto after graduation in May 2009. After a particularly heartbreaking negative (at the end of a month-long trip to Germany), we (ahem, I) made the decision to see an RE as soon as we were back stateside.

We were incredibly lucky to have infertility coverage through the hospital associated with my husband's university, and we had our first RE appointment in late July 2009. And weirdly, my other doctor was right-- treatment with metf.ormin and weight-loss had, in fact, "cured" my PCOS (in so much as there is a "cure") to the point that it was a complete non-issue. However, as we all know, it takes two to tango, and as it turns out, in August 2009, we discovered that we were dealing with male factor issues (low counts, low motility), and decided pretty immediately to pursue IVF with ICSI.

We started our first IVF cycle in September of 2009. We used a long-Lup.ron protocol (made even longer by a cyst that added an extra week of suppression while we waited to drain the cyst): 21 follicles, 18 mature eggs retrieved on Oct 7, 14 fertilized with ICSI, 10 grew normally, 8 still growing on day 3, 5 looking okay on day 5, transferred 2 day 5 blastocysts on Oct 12 and froze the other three. We saw our first positive pee-stick late in the day 5dp5dt. Betas confirmed. Early ultrasound showed one perfect spark and one maybe spark. Two weeks later, our seven week ultrasound showed two perfect sparks with two perfect heartbeats.

And now, after an uneventful 38 week pregnancy, Henry and Jack arrived on June 16th, and are currently asleep on the nursing pillow on my lap. This parenting business is a total trip!

New ToyJack (l) and Henry (r)

Me as a parent-type person:
I am a stay-at-home mama, I breast feed (though I also supplement with formula as necessary), I lean toward attachment-parenting ideas (again, modified as necessary to work with twins), I cloth diaper (but only when it's convenient), I'm politically and socially liberal, I'm a secular humanist-- but I campaign for NONE of these things. I count among my closest friends working, formula-feeding, Ferberizing, Bush-voting Methodists... Above everything, I believe it takes all kinds.

As an everything-else-person:
I cook, I spent 3 years as a music ed major (viola), I am a wine enthusiast, I garden, I'm an avid reader, I run, I'm the handyman in our house, I sew/knit/crochet/do other needlework, I write, I play darts, I'm a philosopher (by degree) and a programmer (by former career). I'm trying to figure out how to still be all these things while also being a twin parent. It's hard to say the least.

So. That's me. What about you?


Lyndz said...

I really enjoy reading your blog! You give me hope that someday I will have a baby! Your boys are absolutely adorable!
My husband and I began ttc in November of 2008, we were immediately pregnant. I lost that pregnancy at 6 weeks. After that we continued to try until December of 2009 when I was diagnosed with PCOS. After that we didn't prevent until September of 2010. This month I started my first round of Clomid and produced one egg. Now we are playing the waiting game to see if it has been fertilized!

Anonymous said...

Hi - I'm here from ICLW. We have a lot in comon, but mostly I just want to say congrats on the twins! IF is a long road, and you offer hope to many others. I look forward to coming back for more xxx

Marie said...

As long as I have ready your blog, I am not sure I knew your whole ttc story. Thanks for sharing.

Kathleen said...

hello! stopping over form ICLW. we soudn very similar! its nice to meet you. my journey is on my blog... but in a nutshell, we've been ttc for almost 4 years, and we're just about to embark on IVF #3 in hopes of having our own bio baby or babies! if that doesn't work, we're moving on to using a gestational surrogate. i'm so happy for your success and seeing the pic of your twins bring me a happiness and longing. thanks for sharing your story

Anonymous said...

Your baby boys are just gorgeous!

Happy ICLW!

justine said...

What beautiful little boys, and what a supermama you are! Here from LFCA to wish you an early happy birthday ... I forgot to sign up for ICLW this month (boo hoo), but I'm making rounds anyway.

Miss Ruby said...

Congrats on your bubbas, they look gorgeous.

Me? 11 years ttc, 8 miscarriages, countless chemical pregnancies, currently destroyed heart n life n dreams which I'm struggling to get over.

Your story sounds so much better!

rach @ the miss ruby